Because finding love and keeping it requires going inward, the first place you need to look is within yourself if you want to either find your faithful Black Love or keep the Black Love you already have. If you want to see your true love or soul mate, going through this exercise first is a good idea. It is an excellent process to go through.
Since relationships tend to resonate at the same energetic level, if you want to be a part of a happy and affectionate relationship, you must first be happy and affectionate yourself before you can expect to be a part of such a relationship.
Make a Commitment to Your Vision
Asking for precisely what you require is the first step in committing. When you commit to yourself, you make a pact to recognize your capabilities and limitations. Because you are still only human, having flaws in your character is acceptable.
The first step in this process and on this inner journey is compiling a list of characteristics you believe your future partner will possess. You may be looking for someone affectionate, wealthy, ambitious, caring, charismatic, considerate, creative, etc., among other desirable qualities in a partner. Put less emphasis on physical characteristics and more on mental attributes instead.
Commit to this process by becoming the person who fits the ideal client’s profile. This process will open your eyes because you may discover that you have some internal cleaning before you open your heart to someone else.
When you are ready, make a public declaration of your intent by saying the following out loud:
“I __________(say your name) fully commit to welcoming my soul mate into my life and growing myself into the kind of person I want to attract,” the speaker says to the listener. “I will grow into the person I want to attract.”
Developing a Sharp Focus on the Future
This is the enjoyable part of it. Imagine who it is that you would marry if you could. Gain some insight and concentration, and home in on the essential qualities. Which characteristics do they most strongly exhibit? How would you recognize them if you happened to run into them at a party? Would you consider someone who makes you laugh and smile to be your soul mate?
Imagine being able to reach out and give a bear hug to your true love. Use your list and create a mental image of someone who embodies all your essential characteristics. Instead of picturing someone you already know, conjure up an image in your head of the ideal person to share your life with. Imagine someone open to a happy, loving, and committed partnership. Remember that you are NOT looking for someone to “make you happy,” but rather for someone who complements you in every way. Your goal should be to find someone who brings out the best in you. Consider the unique skills and experiences that each of you brings to the table.
Put out a call to your soul and write a new chapter in your life.
The human mind is the fertile ground from which everything in the cosmos grows. A significant amount of scientific research has demonstrated this. People who are separated by thousands of miles but think loving thoughts about one another can affect the other person’s heartbeat and capacity to experience love simply by thinking about one another. You could also think of this as a prayer to the universe, asking it to bring you together with the person destined to be your soul mate.
Create an intention by writing down or speaking aloud a statement such as “My perfect partner is on his/her way to me” or “The universe is now conspiring to join my soul mate and me in the perfect time and the perfect way.” This will help bring your ideal partner into your life.
To attract the energy of your soul mate, you must first make room in your heart for it to enter. Invest a few minutes of your time every day in concentrating on the sensations of love and companionship brought to you by your ideal partner.
If you are experiencing any emotional resistance or blocks, you may need to forgive yourself for letting go of the past. You can free up your emotional energy by having a conversation in your head with the energy of your history. Picture any excess energy sitting in a chair before you, and have this conversation with it. Tell the energy of the past that you are grateful for the experiences and the lessons it has provided you but that you are now prepared to move on to something new.
Make a statement that you will be able to concentrate on and read each day. The conversation could go something like this:
“I am the one who brings my life into existence. I have self-love and acceptance. I am willing to receive all the good things the universe has planned for me. I have respect and love for myself. I am an excellent person to give and receive love too. Because I am kind and compassionate, I deserve your love and attention. I am prepared to meet the person who is meant to be my soul mate. I am content with myself and don’t need to change for anyone. I am bringing into my life the most loving person possible, and as a result, my heart is overflowing with joy. I send my perfect partner pure, unconditional love from the depths of my being. As I pour my love out into the world, I am showered with an abundance of it in return.”
Remember to devote some of your days to concentrating on this picture of perfection. Your new chapter will soon begin, and you will start to move into it and live it.
Improving the Quality of Your Existing Romantic Relationship
Realizing and accepting that you have a part of yourself that is not loved is the most significant obstacle to having a loving relationship with another person. Because everyone is a reflection of us, we must first fortify our innermost convictions or values to fortify an already-established romantic connection. You are the first step in the process.
Loving Yourself Deeply
You should begin by telling yourself over and over in your head, “I commit to loving myself deeply.”
Repeat the statement in your head over and over again until you feel it beginning to resonate with your energy. At least 20 to 30 times while in a peaceful meditative state, repeat the phrase “I love myself deeply.”
During your meditation, your thoughts may wander to other affirmations, and that’s perfectly normal. Repeat in your mind whichever affirmation you believe will assist you in loving yourself deeply more often. Perform this activity for at least five to ten minutes each day. The kind of magic produced by this straightforward process will surprise you.
An energetic field is formed when the heart’s electromagnetic field, generated by our heartbeat, forms. This field connects us to our higher power or higher self, and it also connects us to other people.
When you make choices that come from your heart, you are aligning yourself with the goals and values that are most important to you. Discovering how to connect with your heart bestows meaning, value, and purpose.
To connect with your heart, you must look deep within yourself to find out what makes your soul light up and your chest feel like it could burst. Feelings such as love, friendship, and pleasure contribute to the meaning we derive from our lives.
When you are crystal clear about what you want out of life and out of your relationship, the universe conspires to help you obtain it. This is true for both your personal life and your romantic life. It is also the location of the fourth chakra, the heart chakra, which is a powerful component of your being. The heart is also the center of love. Our connection to the divine and one another, as well as the healing and wholeness that result from it, are both realized through the experience of love.
Your energetic body’s core, also known as the heart chakra, is in the middle of your physical body and is responsible for helping you connect between the earth and the heavens. Circulating your point freely allows you to reach your full potential. Your energy becomes stifled when negative emotions such as hatred, anger, and resentment consume your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Love and hate, both of which are compelling emotions, are intricately connected in the human brain. It’s much simpler to hate someone than it is to love them. Hatred requires little in the way of effort or time, and it serves to keep others at arm’s length. It is not easy to love someone because it requires much
work, time, and dedication. Love is the only thing that can heal any wound and the only thing that can keep us all connected. Love is alive.
These sorts of feelings have the potential to clog up your energy field and leave your immune system vulnerable. If your heart chakra becomes blocked, the quality of your energy may deteriorate. To keep your vibrations high and protect your mind and body from the corrosive effects of emotions such as hatred, you should make it a habit to purge these negative feelings whenever you can.
You will be able to start constructing a powerfully healing relationship with yourself and the people who are a part of your life as you learn to connect with your heart.
Restoring Health to Your Fractured Relationships
Healing is frequently an internal process. When we resonate at a certain frequency, we often attract other people who resonate at the same frequency as us. If you want to fix a broken relationship, you must set yourself before you can heal the relationship. For you to make progress in your romantic relationships, there is something deep inside of you that has to be resolved first.