Our Kids Are Dying and Our Attention Is Elsewhere

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Sixteen-year-old Christopher “CJ” Redding should be here right now.

Instead, he’s another name added to a list most people outside the neighborhood will never remember.

CJ, a Bronx high-school football player, was shot after a dispute spilled onto the street near West 238th Street and Broadway. According to investigators and his family, he wasn’t chasing anyone — he was trying to help friends during an argument when gunfire erupted. He was shot in the back. He died from a situation that exploded in seconds but had likely been building long before that night.

Within hours, the neighborhood knew.

Within days, the city moved on.

Within a week, the internet went back to arguing about people most of us will never meet, in places most of us will never go, connected to power structures none of us control.

And that is the problem.

We have become a people intensely informed about distant scandals but dangerously uninformed about local patterns. Everyone can explain the Epstein files, yet few can explain why the same corners keep producing funerals. This isn’t about caring or not caring. It’s about focus. Because attention is power, and we keep exporting ours.

People say we can care about both. In theory, yes. In reality, the results tell a different story. Every week, another Black youth is killed somewhere in this city, and the conversation lasts a day or two at most before being replaced by a national controversy. We respond to the effect, we mourn the tragedy, we post the candle emojis, and then we move on without confronting the conditions that keep producing the same outcome.

If we were truly doing both, the pattern would change. It isn’t.

The same people who can organize marches against ICE, rally for the release of Epstein files, and mobilize overnight for national political causes somehow cannot sustain that same organized energy when the victims are boys from their own neighborhoods. Even organizations that built their name around the value of Black life go quiet when the violence is routine and local. The issue isn’t the willingness to protest — it’s the direction of the protest.

While social media debates elite corruption, mothers in the Bronx are mapping safe walking routes for their children. While timelines fill with national outrage, the after-school hours remain the most predictable window for violence. While podcasts dissect conspiracies, the same retaliation cycles repeat block to block and borough to borough.

We are emotionally national and practically local, yet we organize the opposite way.

The truth is uncomfortable: youth violence is rarely mysterious. It follows a sequence: conflict, pride, gathering, escalation, and, finally, a weapon. The faces change, but the pattern rarely does. Prevention, therefore, requires sustained pressure, not occasional mourning.

Instead, our collective energy spikes for symbolic battles and disappears for operational ones. We debate narratives but avoid diagnosis. We argue about who to blame after the shooting instead of asking what intervention existed before it. We keep discussing reactions, never causes.

The result is a cycle where funerals are treated as isolated tragedies instead of predictable failures.

CJ Redding did not die because nobody cared.

He died in a system where caring is loud but concentrated elsewhere.

Every community has problems, but communities that stabilize themselves develop a habit: local issues receive local obsession. Right now, we have the reverse — national obsession and local resignation — and institutions respond accordingly.

If outcomes are going to change, attention must become targeted. Not just grief and not just anger, but sustained focus on the environment producing repetition. Prevention does not begin at the moment of violence. It begins months earlier in patterns everyone nearby already recognizes.

We do not lack compassion.

We lack concentration.

Until the same energy used to decode elite scandals is applied to decoding neighborhood violence, the pattern will continue: outrage, funeral, distraction, repeat.

We will know the names of powerful men in distant documents.

And forget the names of our own children a week after burying them.

DAMON K JONES
DAMON K JONEShttps://damonkjones.com
A multifaceted personality, Damon is an activist, author, and the force behind Black Westchester Magazine, a notable Black-owned newspaper based in Westchester County, New York. With a wide array of expertise, he wears many hats, including that of a Spiritual Life Coach, Couples and Family Therapy Coach, and Holistic Health Practitioner. He is well-versed in Mental Health First Aid, Dietary and Nutritional Counseling, and has significant insights as a Vegan and Vegetarian Nutrition Life Coach. Not just limited to the world of holistic health and activism, Damon brings with him a rich 32-year experience as a Law Enforcement Practitioner and stands as the New York Representative of Blacks in Law Enforcement of America.

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