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Money and Children: Teaching by Age Groups

According to the Council for Economic Education (CEE), which promotes economic and financial education in the classroom, students who have taken a class in personal finance are more likely to engage in financially responsible behaviors such as saving, budgeting, and investing. 1  

Parents can insulate their kids from some of the biggest money management mistakes and build their financial literacy by talking openly about the value of money and the benefits of good financial decision-making.

To yield the biggest impact on kids’ money habits, however, the lessons imparted must be age-appropriate.

Elementary School: Saving by Example

Younger kids, for example, may not be ready for a lesson on compounded savings growth, but they can benefit greatly by watching their parents model good financial behavior. 

At this age, it’s important, too, to demonstrate the value of money and sound money management.

That’s best done by giving them a dollar to purchase something at the mall, a yard sale, or at the movies. Let them see what they can get for a buck.

Elementary school kids can also begin to set financial goals.

When they receive birthday money from Grandma, or an allowance, encourage them to save the cash for something bigger they really want.

Show them how to compare prices at the grocery store and explain how different brands cost more for the same product.

Middle School and Money Management

As your children mature, you can start letting them experiment with the money they earn through babysitting, shoveling snow or an allowance.

Help them set up three accounts – one for their savings, one for spending money, and one (if you choose) for charity. And explain how interest works.

These are the years to help children establish good saving and spending habits, and help them manage impulse-buying control.

To help close the knowledge gap, continue to build financial literacy, and reinforce the lessons learned at home, look for activities or public events that help build money awareness.

High School Kids: Debt Awareness

High school and college-age kids are ready for more sophisticated lessons in money management.

That includes debt. Many of the best and brightest graduates get themselves in financial hot water by spending money they don’t have and burying themselves in high-interest credit card debt.

You can save your kids from a similar fate by explaining how interest rates work, and how those $300 designer sneakers cost much more if you pay with credit and make only the minimum monthly payments.

By paying $30 per month on a credit card that charges 18 percent interest, for example, that $300 would take 11 months to pay off and cost an additional $27 in interest.

Now is also the time to impress upon young adults the benefits of good financial choices – and the cost of poor decision-making.

Banks and other lenders rely on credit scores, a number that reflects your debt-to-income ratio and repayment history, to determine whether to issue borrowers a credit card or loans for a car or home mortgage. They also use it to determine what interest rate they should charge.

By making payments on time and keeping your debt to a minimum, consumers are far more likely to qualify for the most favorable, lowest-interest loans. 

Finally, there’s nothing like a lesson in compounded growth to motivate your adult children to save for their future.

Teaching kids to save is merely aimed at giving them the tools to become smart consumers, use debt wisely, and put money away for their future.

1 MassMutual State of the American Family 2013 survey

Provided by Rashad Bilal, a financial representative with The Bilal Group LLC, courtesy of Massachusetts Mutual Life Insurance Company

Danielle Henry – The Power of Serving

Danielle Henry from Orange County was a part of The Women’s March of 2017, except she is more than the average advocate for women’s rights. She is a daughter who was taught that you should give what you have to those who do not have it for themselves.  Women in Power has been a significant topic of discussion since the current president of the United States was sworn in on January 20, 2017. There were an estimated 600,000 people present. However, the day after is what set record numbers and made history. On January 21, 2017, women from Mexico to Seattle to Florida straight up to Boston reached record numbers of five million in history. The Women’s March was a worldwide protest advocating for issues such as Black Lives Matter, immigration reform, health care, and women’s rights, to name a few. Most of the rallies were aimed at the current president, who has made and continues to make anti-women and offensive statements. 

Danielle Henry is currently working for Dialogue Direct. Dialogue Direct is a fundraising provider for the best charities in the world. They do street canvassing while having a dialogue with great donors about causes they are passionate about. Charities such as Save the Children, ASPCA, and World Wildlife Fund have budgets ranging from $200,000 to $7 million. Danielle is all about helping donors make an impact with the best nonprofits in the world. On any given day, you will find her traveling to Portland, Los Angeles, Miami, or Philadelphia. Then back to Westchester County to sit in a room on a Saturday morning, mentoring girls. 

“Working with people and working for the community is in my DNA,” said Danielle. Current president of Westchester County Delta Sigma Theta, Inc. Alumnae chapter. “People would do a purge of clothing they no longer care for, go to a consignment store, or drop their clothing off and get a receipt for their taxes. I was taught to create a bag and set out to find the person who needed the items. The want is for them to have the same joy I had when I had them. This is a form of clearing the path and having the continuance of blessings.”

She was raised in Uniondale, Long Island, relocated to Orange County, and is an active member of the Junior League. “I wanted to meet people in Orange County, and a good friend of mine introduced me to the Junior League. I wanted to have another lens of how needs are met in other communities,” shared Danielle. She noticed that there was a need for volunteer services and joined in 2008, which is the smallest League in the country. The Associated Junior League International was founded in New York City by Catherine Harriman of the Harriman family in 1901. It is one of the oldest women’s volunteer organizations in the world with more than 150,000 women with 291 leagues in four countries. The Junior League was founded by women who were not College graduates. These women were found serving the women and children for the betterment of their community through volunteering. Identifying issues in the community such as pollution, illiteracy, domestic violence, and social reform while finding solutions is a part of their mission. Danielle emphasized that The Junior League has a strong focus on health and nutrition. The Junior League was predominantly white and has evolved to be a very diverse national treasure. There is now a high percentage of diverse women with a balance for the greater good. 

Women in action is also what attracted Danielle to pledge Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated. “We are some serious women who are strategic in nature and I clearly understand through my eighteen years as a member that we are relevant. It is not about wearing the para. It is about action. The first act of social action was the Delta’s participation in the Women’s Suffrage March in 1913,” explained Danielle.  The march was for the rights of women to vote in elections. The Westchester Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. was established in 1959 and will be 59 years old in October while serving the community in multiple ways. Programs such as The toast of Spring scholarship lunch which provides scholarships to female students from Westchester, Habitat for Humanities, movie screenings as it affect our African American community, addressing the Housing crisis in Westchester County, coming up with solutions as to why our first responders are unable to reside in Westchester county, mentoring girls and boys, and walking side by side with Kenneth Chamberlain Jr. in search for justice because his father Kenneth Chamberlain Sr. was fatally shot by White Plains police on November 19, 2011. 

When asked about our female youth Danielle shared her thoughts. “I think the state of our young women are in a crisis. There will always be a need for our Black Boys to have programs that have been in need and battling the constant test of time. However, our young ladies are more aggressive, more violent, and suspended more, and incarceration is increasing as we speak. We do not have the traditional framework to show the delicacy. I am all for Girl power and enforcing standing, but they can show the delicate side of her as well. When was the last time you heard of a cotillion or a monthly tea party to balance off having to be so powerful? There is no balance. This society is currently either over-sexual or under-sexualization. With no proper balance, we are left with young ladies trying to find their way. There is no way for them to show which why they want to go. There has been a crisis by the opposite sex, business, health-wise, regulation of our reproductive system for the last ten years.  There is a lack of having a worldliness about us. Exposure to classic arts, contemporary art, opera, and ballet. I want our young ladies to understand that it does not make you a nerd it helps build culture which is a disservice to our children in this day and age.”

Danielle ended with this…

“I remain to be a optimist by nature. But things will never be easy. You have to be comfortable with being uncomfortable to progress.” 

Women and Financial Education

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We don’t graduate students from high school until they know how to read and write, and we don’t give out driver’s licenses to people who can’t pass tests showing they know the rules of the road and how to handle a car.

Yet every day we put credit cards and bank accounts, paychecks and mortgages, stock options, and insurance policies into the hands of people who haven’t proven they understand how to use them. These financial instruments are powerful tools—sometimes even weapons in the wrong hands. Understanding how to use them properly demonstrates a high level of financial acumen.

Financial education is rarely taught in schools, although some states now mandate this as part of the curriculum standards. Parents want to educate their children at home but may lack the confidence or level of understanding themselves. They don’t know how or when to talk to their children or what lessons may be age-appropriate. People who understand how money works are better able to make sound decisions in their own lives, not to mention make sense of policies that affect our entire nation and the world.

There isn’t a single approach to making financial education work, but rather try to make it a lifestyle commitment, a long-term goal achieved via a series of small, manageable goals. Here are some steps you can take to achieve that long-term goal:

  • Get into the habit of thinking in terms of money. Everything has an economic aspect; start looking for it as you go through your day. When you add a cold drink to your tab as you pay for gasoline, think: “I’m spending two dollars to quench my thirst.” When you remember to register early for the conference, think: “I’m saving a hundred dollars by being organized and reaching a decision quickly.” Becoming conscious of what you spend and why helps you to become aware of your spending habits and of patterns you may want to change.
  • Keep track of what you earn and spend. Use a notebook, spreadsheet, personal finance software, or any other form that’s comfortable for you. (Most financial institutions and many sites on the Internet offer this software at no charge.) Write down every penny you get or give from any source, no matter how insignificant. Keeping track of your earnings and spending in this way demystifies money and gives you a sense of control over it.
  • Develop a budget. The money log you’ve been keeping will help you decide how much you need to allot to each category. (Find budget worksheets wherever you find your daily money log.)
  • Read about financial topics or attend informational seminars in your local community. Don’t skip over the finance section of the newspaper. Pick up magazines devoted to economics and finance. Even publications for women focusing mainly on fashion or homemaking will contain some articles related to personal finance.
  • Familiarize yourself with your pay stubs and billing statements. Do you know what rate you are being charged for credit cards and utility bills? Credit card companies may charge one rate for purchases and another, higher rate for cash advances. Customers with better credit ratings usually get more attractive rates. Utility companies may vary their rates depending on peak or off-peak usage, age or economic status of household members, or other factors. Look for hidden fees and determine if they are necessary.
  • Send for copies of your credit report from the three major credit reporting agencies (Equifax, Trans Union, and Experian). You are allowed one free report each year from each agency. Look them over and make sure everything on them is accurate. The U.S. government’s Federal Trade Commission website (www.ftc.gov) has lots of good information about understanding these reports and correcting any errors.
  • Ask questions. Are you taking full advantage of your benefits package at your place of employment? If you don’t fully understand your benefits, speak with your human resources manager about them. If you don’t understand your billing statements, call customer service and speak with a representative.
  • Educate your kids. Explain to them that money is a finite resource: every dollar spent for one purpose is a dollar not spent—or saved—for something else. Depending on their ages, allow them to make financial transactions. Give them allowances. Sign them up for financial education classes. Resolve to make the whole family savvy about money!

Gaining Confidence Through Financial Education
There is no time like the present to improve your financial acumen. Take small, attainable steps an hold yourself accountable for achieving milestones. Guidance from a qualified financial professional can help you think about the best ways to plan for the future and manage your money. 

Provided by Rashad Bilal, a financial representative with The Bilal Group LLC, courtesy of Massachusetts Mutual Life Insurance Company (MassMutual) 

We Stand With Andrea Stewart Cousins

So Should Every Black Person In Westchester County

We don’t have to go south to be reminded of racist white people. They’re right here in New York.

The disrespectful, race-based language of Daniel Loeb, who is a top donor to Democratic Governor Andrew Cuomo and many other politicians, is unacceptable on many levels.  For Loeb to compare Senator Cousins to the KKK, then apologize and blame it on their passion for education, insults our intelligence and our suffering as Black people at the hands of a racist organization like the KKK. Makes us wonder what they think about women and black people behind closed doors. All monies from Mr. Leob should be returned; racist money should not be accepted in the Democratic Party from Gov. Cuomo on down.

The black community of Westchester have watched for too long the subtle dog whistle Politics against Black Politicians including our sister in her position by sexist and racist elected officials, and some of them have the nerve to call themselves Democrats.

What makes Governor Cuomo think that Sen. Klein has a better understanding of the suburbs than the Senate Majority Leader, Andrea Stewart-Cousins? Sen. Cousins represents more of Westchester than Klein, is more known and has crossed ethnic boundaries throughout the county.

Maybe our Governor didn’t understand. Maybe the Governor forgot that living in Chappaqua, which has a 1.95% black population (according to the 2101 census) does not represent the rest of Westchester.

Maybe there is an underlining Racial Empathy Gap in the Democratic Party in the state of New York. To systematically deny a Black woman the power of the position is a denial of Black peoples’ pain of Slavery, Jim Crow, the fight for Civil Rights, unjust killing of Black man and Mass Incarceration. I believe it’s even worse. The problem is that the pain isn’t really felt its only identified with when they need our votes. And that’s being a Hypocrite! 

Sen. Cousins has, since the beginning of her political career, faced two strikes against her: Being black in a predominantly white, male-dominant political system and being a woman in a historical system of oppression.

The Independent Democratic Caucus (IDC) was founded in 2011, a year before Sen. Cousins was voted in to be the first Black Legislative Leader. Was the creation of the IDC a preemptive strike to weaken her position? Was the establishment of the IDC a political attempt to keep a black woman from the seat of power?

These are the questions Sen. Klein and others must be asked. With racist donors like Leob, what are they thinking? We all know the old saying, birds of a feather, flock together. If the racist shoe fits; then wear it!

Sen. Andrea Stewart-Cousins has remained unbroken and continue to chip away from the glass ceiling of the New York State Legislature, even though it seems they have stacked the chips against her. She has remained strong throughout the adversity while remaining regal throughout – she is the embodiment of beauty in the struggle. As I stand, all Black Westchester should stand with Sen. Cousins because she has always stood for us.

If our Governor Cuomo fails to recognize Sen. Cousins and her seat of power as Senate Majority Leader, then maybe, just maybe he would recognize her if she primary him in the next election for a Candidate for New York State Governor. Would he see her then?

Big Pun – The Legacy of A Latino Lyricist

Starting with the end and working backward, the world was in shock when the news came that
Big Pun suffered a fatal heart attack on February 7, 2000 in the Crowne Plaza Hotel, White
Plains, at the age of 28 years old. In a time most stories like this ended with a hip-hop artist
dying by some act of senseless violence, if there was anything positive to find, many were happy
that he wasn’t shot to death.

What made taking his death so hard was hearing the lyrics of his current single; “It’s so hard (It’s
hard work, baby)/ Yeah (I just copped 100 pounds, I’m tryin’ to live, I ain’t goin’ nowhere).”
Despite the loss of weight, a heavyweight in hip-hop was gone. It’s So Hard featuring Donell
Jones played on not just heavy rotation, but every rotation like Hypnotize played right after
Biggie died.

Now starting from the beginning, I knew Pun was gonna be a big star when he joined Fat Joe on
stage to perform a track from Joe’s second album, Jealous One’s Envy. Joe was performing, Big
Pun came out on stage at the Palladium that used to be located on the south side of East 14th
Street, between Irving Place and Third Avenue. In mid-verse, Pun fell flat on his ass, laid on the
floor of the stage, never missing a beat, a lyrics and rocked like it was a scheduled part of the
show. I remember watching saying this dude gonna be a big star.

Big Pun was a surprisingly graceful and nimble rapper, delivering his often clever, tongue-
twisting rhymes at a torrential pace. When he spit; “Dead in the middle of Little Italy little did we
know/ That we riddled two middlemen who didn’t do diddly,” in Twinz (Deep Cover 98),
everyone was speechless how Pun rode that classic beat from the Dr. Dre/Snoop Dogg collabo
from the movie Deep Cover. You couldn’t deny his notably technical efficiency, his having
minimal pauses to take a breath and his heavy use of alliteration as well as internal and multi-
syllabic rhyming schemes.

In my first interview at Loud Records with Pun a year or so later for the release of his debut solo
album, the one thing I remember was telling me, “AJ, I’m gonna be the first Latino rapper to go
platinum. That will be like artists go 10 times platinum for me, to be the first.” He insisted he
would be first; “cause Latins goin’ platinum was destined to come.” The other thing I remember
was his sense of humor, he was very quick-witted and had jokes for days, making it hard to
actually do the interview, cause he had my crying. Dude was madd funny.

Artwork by AL Dre originally appeared in The Last Word of The Source Magazine [Black Westchester]

Emerging from the underground hip-hop scene in The Bronx borough of New York City, in the
early 1990s, he was the first Latino rapper to have an album certified platinum as a solo act. He
first appeared on tracks from Fat Joe’s second album Jealous One’s Envy in 1995, and The
Beatnuts’ second album Stone Crazy in 1997, prior to signing to Loud Records as a solo artist.
 He is widely regarded as one of the greatest rappers of all time. About.com ranked him #25 on
its list of the 50 Greatest MCs of All Time, while MTV2 ranked him #11 on its list of the “22
Greatest MCs”. In 2012, The Source ranked him #19 on their list of the Top 50 Lyricists of All
Time.

Soundview, Pun’s hood is a neighborhood at the eastern edge of Bronx Community Board 9,
with a population density about 45,000 per square mile (excluding Soundview Park, about
53,000 per square mile). Its total land area is roughly 1.3 square miles. The neighborhood
predominantly consists of Latin Americans (mainly Puerto Ricans) and African-Americans and
has a mixture of moderate single-family homes, low-income buildings and expensive
condominiums. Just 10 miles or so, away from Money-Earning Mount Vernon where another
Heavyweight hip-hop artist, Heavy D, called home.

Boricua, morena, boricua, morena, boricua, morena, boricua, morena

In 1996 Big Pun began recording songs for his debut album Capital Punishment. In 1997
producer Knobody’s production partner Sean C took advantage of his new role as A&R at Loud
Records to play Knobody’s tracks to Big Pun. Suitably impressed, the rapper hired Knobody to
remix “I’m Not a Player”. The remixed song, featuring Joe and titled “Still Not a Player”, became
Big Pun’s first major mainstream hit and major breakthrough for Knobody. The full-length debut
Capital Punishment followed in 1998, and peaking at #5 on the Billboard 200.

Capital Punishment was also nominated for a Grammy, and went to No. 1 on the R&B/hip-hop
charts. Big caught his first big break when he met successful rapper-producer Fat Joe in 1995.
Recognizing Big Pun’s talent, Fat Joe asked him to appear on his song “Watch Out.” The two
oversized talents formed a strong friendship and working relationship. Inspired by a comic book
character, he took the new name, Big Punisher, and joined the Terror Squad, a group of Latino
rappers associated with Fat Joe. Fat Joe even helped negotiate Big Pun’s contract with Loud
Records.

In a short time, Big Pun developed a substantial fan base and became a hero in the Puerto Rican
community. He was proud of his heritage and often mentioned it in his lyrics and even draped
himself in the Puerto Rican flag at times. Christopher Lee Rios (November 10, 1971 – February
7, 2000) better known by his stage name Big Pun (short for Big Punisher), was a legendary
Latino lyricist!

People Before Politics Radio – Episode 120 – Rev Dr Stephen W. Pogue

Black Westchester presents The People Before Politics Radio Show Episode 120 with your hosts Damon K. Jones and AJ Woodson and co-host Robert ‘Dr. Bob’ Baskerville

Our guest this week: Rev. Dr. Stephen W. Pogue, Pastor of Greater Centennial A.M.E. Zion Church in Mount Vernon, NY, Sunday, April 9, 2017

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People Before Politics Radio Episode 119 – ATLANTIC STARR – April 2, 2017

Black Westchester Magazine presents The People Before Politics Radio Show Episode 119

With your hosts Damon. K. Jones & AJ Woodson and Co-Host Dr. Robert Baskerville,

Our Guests This Week: Greenburgh’s own Atlantic Starr chops it up about the New Album, the Unsung Documentary, local politics, and their upcoming CD Release party, Sunday, April 2, 2017

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PBP RADIO – Episode 111 – Voices of Those Who Lost Loved Ones To Senseless Gun Violence

Black Westchester Magazine presents The People Before Politics Radio Show Episode 110 With your hosts Damon K. Jones & AJ Woodson and Co-Host Cynthia Turnquest-Jones

Guests: Anthony Olskool Mitchell, Naz ForevaBlessed Dun, Linda and Wilfred Dennis

Topic: MVPD, Senseless Gun Violence in Mount Vernon, and the grief of those who lose loved ones to gun violence, Sunday, January 22, 2017

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PBP RADIO – Episode 108 – State of The MVPD

Black Westchester Magazine presents The People Before Politics Radio Show – Episode 108

With your hosts: Damon K. Jones & AJ Woodson and Co-Host Dr. Robert Baskerville

Our Guests This Week: Corey Pegues, author of Once A Cop, Glenn Scott, Anthony Olskool Mitchell, John R Jones Jr and Don Starchild Moore (4 RETIRED officers of the Mount Vernon Police Department)

This Week’s Topic: The State of the MVPD and the Lack of Leadership in the Department

DMX, The Lox, Swizz Beats, Drag On & Sean Cross Rock Westchester County Center For ‘Double R’ CEO Dee BDay

THE EMPIRE STRIKES BACK – #914hIPhOP

Stop, drop, shut ’em down, open up shop
Oh, no, that’s how Ruff Ryders roll

White Plains — Billed as a birthday bash concert for Ruff Ryder CEO Darren Dean, better known as Dee and referred to as The General by everyone in the Double R camp, The Ruff Ryders (DMX, The Lox, Drag-On, Swizz Beats & Sean Cross) brought Hip-Hop back to the Westchester County Center, Saturday night.

We right here
We’re not goin anywhere

The 5,000-seat multi-purpose arena in White Plains was about full to capacity with the exception of the center upper section of seats that are furthest from the stage. Yonkers was in the house, which is to be expected since that’s the home base of the Ruff Ryders operation. The people came to see DMX return for a long-awaited homecoming concert at the Westchester County Center.

Power 105.1 FM was posted out front, greeting concert goers as they arrived. The voice of Westchester, DJ Tri-State Jericko, set things off and entertained the crowd between acts on the ones and twos. Several lesser-known acts graced the stage, displaying their skills each like a ball player in the summer league vying for a position on the main roster. The newest member of the Ruff Ryders fam, Sean Cross, started off the Double R lineup.

Then, back from a ten-year hiatus was Bronx-born and bred rapper/actor Drag-On, who made a rare appearance, came out to perform, and celebrated The General. The ‘Down Bottom’ rapper jumped off the stage to perform in the crowd up close & personal. It may have been ten years since he took the stage, but you can tell the crowd appreciated the love, and they gave it right back as he ‘Spit These Bars.’

When the crowd heard, ‘It’s Showtime!,’ they knew it meant Swizz Beatz was about to take the stage next. He performed a few of his hit tracks like ‘Money In The Bank,’ as the DJ played a few of the many hit singles he performed from other artists. Swizz brought The General to the stage, who was greeted by a cake and everyone wishing Dee a Happy Birthday.

Greeted by a shout-out from Tri-State Jericko when they entered the VIP Area in front of the stage, the Black Westchester Magazine/ People Before Politics Radio crew was in attendance, including Cynthia Turnquest-Jones, Rashad Bilal, Dr. Robert Baskerville aka Brooklyn Bob, and Priscilla Echi, who was holding it down for the Double R Camp.

The Lox took the stage next and showed why they get love in the streets for the past few decades, and it aint fade one bit. While DMX was the main attraction everyone came to see, in the multi-headlined show, in my opinion, Sp, Jada, and Sheek gave the best overall performance of the night hands down. They ran thru the classics and had the crowd give love for the loss of Tupac Shakur and B.I.G.

Come on, uh, uh
What’cha really want
What’cha really want, what
D-M-X, uh, uh
Come on, Ryde or die
Ay yo, ay yo, ay yo
What’s my name? DMX and I be the best
You see the rest they lookin like they need a rest

With that said, you can’t have an official Ruff Ryder show without The Dog. DMX batted last and hit a grand slam running thru his extensive catalog. X switched back and forth from the emcee and Earl the Apostle a few times during the show. Much like the Apostle Paul, one of the most well-known apostles in the early days of Christianity, DMX took the Gospel to the Gentiles, which in 2016 is the hip-hop listening youth of America. Yo, he may not look, nor sound like ya average black preacher, but he planted seeds in the crowd like a follower of Christ is supposed to. Even ending his performance as he has many times before with a powerful prayer.

Being the biggest on the County Center stage for the night did not stop X from giving a few lucky ladies the shirts off his back, literally. First, he blessed one female fan with the sweat rag he used on his bald head, then he took off the red t-shirt he started out the show with and gave it to another female fan, and lastly, he took off the white wife beater and blessed yet another female fan. Each of the three females appeared to be greatly appreciative. End the show shirtless, as he often does, was appreciated by his female fans as well as the rousing response.

When he performed ‘What They Really Want’, almost every female in the house sang the track word for word, and when he ran down the names, the DJ dropped the music, and you could hear the female fans running down the names louder than DMX. The mixed crowd, made up on mostly of Westchester residents, appeared to really enjoy the show.

The Empire Strikes Back concert showed one thing for sure, why The Ruff Ryders is still one of the tightest cliques and most talented hip-hop crews out there, even three decades later…