Big Brothers Big Sisters of Westchester & Putnam (BBBSWP) has named Mount Vernon’s Ebonette Bates Hudson the March Big Deal honoree. The Big Deal initiative was launched in January 2025 to recognize the invaluable contributions of their Bigs (mentors). This campaign highlights the inspiring stories of those who make BBBSWP thrive. Ms. Bates Hudson, an attorney with the New York City Office of Administrative Trials and Hearings, mentored her Little, D.F., for seven years.
“I decided to become a Big sister because I had a strong desire to share what I’ve learned and experienced in order to make someone else’s path a little easier,” said Bates Hudson. “What this experience has taught me the most is humility. I do not have all the answers, but being supportive is what’s most important. Your Little’s interests and challenges will constantly change, but it is a rewarding ride. The key to being a great mentor is flexibility and commitment.”
Match time includes attending D.F.’s softball games and gospel choir performances, Arthur Ashe Kids’ Day at the U.S. Open, swimming, and exploring New York City. Bates Hudson added, “New York City is so close yet so far away for so many of our Littles; exploring it is a wonderful way to expand a Little’s horizons.”
The Big Deal initiative highlights mentoring by featuring a Big from Westchester or Putnam County each month, sharing their experiences to inspire others to mentor. “We are so proud of our Bigs,” said Ann Ellsworth, CEO of BBBSWP. “They are the heart and soul of our organization, and we are deeply grateful for their commitment to their Littles and to BBBSWP.”
When asked about advice she gives to people considering becoming Big, Bates Hudson said, “Become a big! There will never be the perfect moment or enough money, or time. If you desire to make a difference, you will find ways to make it a fulfilling experience. You and your Little will expand each other’s definition of fun.”
The 2025 Economic Impact Report from Big Brothers Big Sisters highlights why mentorship matters:
Evidence-Based Impact:– Mentored youth are 10% more likely to attend college.- Alumni Littles are less reliant on social services and have stronger social connections.- Former Littles earn $56,000 more in lifetime earnings than non-mentored peers.Empowering Communities: Mentorship builds resilience, helping young people overcome adversity and fostering a more inclusive society.A Simple, Profound Solution: Connecting caring adults with youth creates transformative relationships that strengthen communities.
Big Brothers Big Sisters of Westchester & Putnam is committed to one-to-one mentoring, helping children reach their potential and build brighter futures. To learn more or apply, visit bigswestchester.org or call 914-937-3779.
